It has been an ongoing personal challenge to communicate clearly without being misunderstood to my spouse. Over time, I came to realize albeit a bit slowly, that men and women process information differently after experiencing the same event in their lives.
It was during our recent men's group group featuring Men's Fraternity at our church did I finally come to grips with this phenomena. I had failed to take into account our differences in personalities and our differences in what is meaningful to her. Speaking the love language that is hers and hers alone in a unique way.
It was also a rather a rather odd set of words, you die to self a little bit each day to gain a whole lot more life with your spouse, that set me off to a rather strange and yet rather challenging new world of mystery from a male perspective to communicate on a deeper level of living with my spouse.
It seems to be a little late in life to come to this conclusion but I do hope to reach the pinnacle of communion with my spouse before my last breath is taken!
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